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February 10, 2008
2-6-2008
Consul’s Word - February 6, 2008
Greetings brothers,
As I begin my final semester at Valparaiso University, I have come to realize the necessity of remembering the past, focusing on the future, and most importantly, living in the present. When balanced properly, these distinct mindsets are what allow a fulfilling, productive, and purpose-driven life. Finding a point of equilibrium between the three perspectives can be a daily battle, and different people meet this challenge in different ways. There are few times when these differences are more apparent than in college. Although we face many of the same challenges together, everyone is dealing with different personal issues at different points in their lives. This can seem overwhelming, but it is this combination of personal and fraternal challenges that makes this chapter so strong. These tests of character only serve to strengthen the camaraderie and brotherhood within the Iota Sigma chapter as we turn towards one another for comfort and support. Individually we may lead very different lives, but we have a common set of ideals and standards that seek out only the finest men.
I mention these matters because of our recently departed and dearly beloved brother, Travis Brison, who entered the chapter eternal on November 17th, 2007. The untimely loss of Travis made it difficult to find solace during the Thanksgiving season. A large portion of the brotherhood made the trip down to Hermann, Missouri to attend the funeral service and burial. The Brison family was extremely appreciative of our strong presence there, as were we by their strength, character, and hospitality. Upon meeting Mr. and Mrs. Brison, it became obvious where Travis got his fine qualities. They were also kind enough to make a trip to Valparaiso to share the loss of their son with us. During their visit, we conducted our own White Rose Ceremony in addition to the memorial service provided by the University. It is our hope that before the end of the academic year, we will obtain permission to place a memorial in memory of Travis on the Valparaiso University campus. In order to raise money for this endeavor, we sold bracelets that were marked with Travis’s initials, the date of his arrival into the Chapter Eternal, and the word “REMEMBER”. Although the tragic loss of an undergraduate brother is something the Iota Sigma chapter has encountered before, it does nothing to lessen the shock and remorse felt by the brotherhood. It has left its mark, and it will continue to do so.
Now, two and a half months down the road, our hearts are still heavy, but we continually try to move on. The daily struggle to live in the present is most visible in those who were closest to Travis. It is essential that we grieve, but we must also remember to move on with our lives. Although we do not wish to forget Brother Brison, we mustn’t dwell in the past lest we forget to look towards the future. If any good has come from this, it has been the strengthening of the chapter. This lose has tempered the strong arms, true hearts, and tender sympathies that we share with each other. By looking inwards as an organization, we have grown closer to one another. In addition to this, the outpouring of support from the alumni has been overwhelming in every facet. It touches my heart and makes me proud to see that our values and obligations are truly of lifelong duration. You have brought true legitimacy to the term “Lifelong Sig”.
In closing, I would like to note how impressed I am with the Fraternity as a whole. I can honestly say that I have never been prouder to be a Sig. To be associated with such a fine group of men is truly an honor. Amidst the tragedy and strife, all of the attributes that make up a Sig can be seen clearer than ever here at the Iota Sigma chapter. As we all search for our own way of moving on, may we continue to support and comfort one another in fighting the good fight.
“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” Proverbs 17:17
Guard Well My Brothers,
Karl Schreiber
Consul